10 Essential Questions to Ask During a Preschool Tour 

Choosing a preschool feels like picking a second home for your child—it’s exciting, nerve-wracking, and so important. Whether you’re Googling “preschool near me” or touring your fifth program, asking the right questions helps you spot the perfect fit. Below, we’ll break down 10 essential questions and share tips to simplify your search. 

1. “What’s Your Teaching Style—Playtime, Structure, or Both?” 

Preschool philosophies vary wildly. Some focus on child-led play (think building forts or “cooking” in a pretend kitchen), while others blend play with structured activities like circle time or letter practice. Ask: “How do kids spend most of their day?” Preschools like Creative World School prioritize hands-on exploration, which research links to stronger problem-solving skills. If your child thrives on routine, ask how much structure they’ve built into their curriculum.  

2. “How Do Teachers Handle Tantrums or Disagreements?” 

Sharing is hard when you’re three. A standout preschool will have clear, kind strategies for guiding conflicts. Do teachers encourage kids to use “I feel” statements? Do they step in calmly when emotions flare? The Zero to Three Foundation notes that empathy-building in early childhood sets the stage for lifelong social skills. During your tour, watch how staff interact with kids. Are they patient? Do they kneel to eye level? These small details speak volumes. 

3. “Can You Walk Me Through a Typical Day?” 

A balanced schedule matters. You’ll want a mix of free play, outdoor time, snacks (expect crumbs!), and maybe a story or song session. Ask: “How much time do kids spend choosing their own activities?” According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, unstructured play boosts creativity and resilience. If every minute feels scheduled, your free-spirited kiddo might feel stifled. 

4. “How Many Kids Are in Each Class?” 

Small groups mean more one-on-one attention. For 3-year-olds, a 1:6 teacher-to-child ratio is ideal. But don’t stop there—ask: “How long have teachers worked here?” High turnover can signal burnout, while seasoned staff often create a calmer, more consistent environment. The NAEYC recommends these ratios for good reason. More one-on-one time with teachers leads to deeper learning. 

5. “Will I Get Updates, or Is It Radio Silence?” 

Preschool communication styles vary. Many preschools including Creative World School send snapshots throughout the day; others share weekly newsletters. Ask: “How do you let parents know about milestones or challenges?” If you’re juggling work, find a program that fits your needs—whether that’s a quick chat at pickup or an email recap. For tips on building a strong parent-teacher relationship, Understood.org offers practical advice. 

6. “How Do You Keep Kids Safe and Healthy?” 

Preschools are germ hubs, but great ones minimize the ick. Ask about cleaning routines, such as how often toys are sanitized, and inquire about allergy policies, especially if your child has specific needs. Clarify sick-day rules, like when a feverish child is sent home.  

7. “What If My Child Needs Extra Support?” 

Every child learns differently. Maybe your little one is shy, hyperactive, or obsessed with dinosaurs. Ask how teachers adapt activities for different needs. Top programs might offer sensory bins, quiet corners, or extra challenges for quick learners.  

8. “What’s Your Policy on Screen Time?” 

Most experts say zero screens for under-5s. But some preschools use short videos for dance breaks or cultural lessons. If screens are part of the day, ask: “How do you make it interactive?” Passive watching is a no-go.  At Creative World Schools, we have a zero-screen policy in our classrooms. For best practices on screen time in and out of school, check out our blog Screen Time Recommendations for Toddlers: What Parents Need to Know.  

9. “What Makes Your Preschool Special?” 

This question often reveals hidden perks. Maybe they have a garden for growing veggies, bilingual storytime, or a cozy reading loft. Outdoor play is a big plus—research from the NAEYC shows it boosts their bodies and their minds. These unique touches can turn a good preschool into a great one, so don’t be afraid to ask! 

10. “How Do You Involve Parents Beyond Drop-Off and Pick-Up?” 

Great preschools know parents are partners, not just drivers. Ask if they host family picnics, parent workshops (like “Taming Toddler Tantrums 101”), or volunteer opportunities. Schools that value community often share resources like PBS Kids’ parenting tips to keep the learning going at home! 

Ready, Set, Tour! 

You’ve got the questions, the tips, and the confidence to find a preschool where your child will bloom. Ready to put it all into action? Download our Preschool Tour Checklist during your visit—download it now! [hyperlink to pdf] This free, easy-to-use guide helps you compare programs, jot down notes, and focus on what matters most.  

Then schedule a tour with a Creative World School preschool near you and see why families love us! From hands-on learning to teachers who celebrate every benchmark moment, you’ll discover what makes their classrooms feel like home.